The 1 Habit All Intelligent People Practice.

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Surrounded by voyeuristic screens and engulfed by never-ending stimulation, our brains are undergoing transformation. Modern life offers many advantages, not the least of which involves the technology that provides us with opportunities that our ancestors couldn’t imagine. Unfortunately, the need to feel constantly connected to the digital realm negatively impacts several areas of our lives.

Unlike the older generations that had more peace and quiet, we are always plugged in, and that makes our habits more important than ever. It’s much easier to get lost in social comparisons and overindulge in eye candy on Instagram than it is to force yourself to do something uncomfortable that will ultimately add value to your life.

As a life coach and licensed therapist, I help my clients follow their intuition. I give them permission to do the behaviors that will bring them the greatest amount of fulfillment and personal success, which often involve spending less time on social media and more time passionately pursuing other interests. Studying the behaviors of leaders in diverse fields, while earning my doctorate in clinical psychology, has taught me that all pioneers have one thing in common.

All great minds read.

Yes, every single intelligent person who has a lasting impact reads. It doesn’t matter if they’re in script-writing or neuroscience; the people who change industry standards are the ones who read books.

Not only do the all-time greats across industries read–they do so on a consistent basis.

Instead of spending time getting caught up in Facebook drama or taking selfies on Snapchat, the real difference-makers have their noses in books. They are broadening their intellectual horizons, gaining energy, and allowing their minds down time from the overwhelming stimulation of society. And science supports the value of flipping pages.

Studies show that reading not only increases your verbal intelligence, but can also improve scores on your overall intelligence and boost your memory. Other research shows that reading can help you relax by reducing stress as much as 68 percent, which is one reason that the Mayo Clinic, in a different study, concludes that reading (a physical book, not a screen) helps people fall asleep each night. However, don’t think that reading short articles online is enough.

The most brilliant individuals–the people who truly make a lasting impact on the world–don’t just read regularly, they also read for depth.

For someone passionate about the field of psychology, for example, reading popular self-help books isn’t enough–he or she needs to read Freud. Dedicated writers can’t read just the current best sellers–they need to study the classics to refine their craft and expose themselves to literary possibilities they haven’t seen before.

People who change entire industries challenge themselves when they read. They know that struggling to parse more difficult content, although laborious, is the only way to raise their ceiling. Most people spend their time reading candy articles and popular books. What they fail to realize is that doing so may keep their imagination active, but it won’t take them to the next level of personal and professional excellence.

The only way that you can change the world is by transforming the way you think about reality. The tried-and-true way to gain access to other unique perspectives is to read books on a consistent basis that force you to grow–emotionally and intellectually–in ways you never thought were possible.

So, put down your tablet, phone, and close your computer. Tell Netflix and HBO to wait–I promise that the flashy screens and endless entertainment will be there tomorrow. Give yourself time and space to get lost in a book, and reconnect to your values.

Read on a consistent basis, and read for depth. It’ll make you a more intelligent person and a better professional.

Source:https://www.inc.com/matthew-jones/all-great-minds-have-this-1-habit-in-common.html?cid=sf01002&sr_share=facebook

Learn Stress Management To Avoid Making Mistakes

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Learn Stress Management To Avoid Making Mistakes Wrong decisions and impromptu choices are always the result of stress. If your mind has gone berserk with a problem, then you can be sure that you will be making mistakes left and right without even knowing it. You can compromise your career, destroy a business, or even […]

7 cosas que debes mantener en secreto para cumplir tus metas según la sabiduría hindú.

Todo lo que influye y afecta el rumbo en el que los seres humanos nos desenvolvemos está regido por nuestro pensamiento, por aquello que ha marcado nuestra vida y lo que hacemos para sobresalir ante el resto. Cada pueblo, tribu y civilización lo hace de diferente modo, en todas influye un pensamiento distinto que nos hace querer adoptar sus tradiciones y costumbres y si estamos inmersos en ello, buscamos a como dé lugar seguir los postulados.

Los griegos, por ejemplo, basaban su estructura política en las polis, la religión politeísta y una clase que se dedicaba al comercio y al ocio, siempre estimulando la curiosidad y la explicación de la verdad a través de los mitos y las tradiciones, el Imperio Romano adoptó sus costumbres y hasta sus dioses, pero cuando los cristianos llegaron y eligieron la adoración a seres supremos en lugar de la explicación lógica, el oscurantismo reinó en Europa.

Los indios, por otro lado, tiene una de las filosofías más perceptivas. Denominada darśana, busca la visión intuitiva e inmediata de la realidad. No ansían la verdad, sino que a partir de experiencias demandan una explicación sistemática para explicar el resto de la existencia humana. El espíritu es sumamente importante, pues lo ven como parte de una experiencia liberadora que condiciona el tiempo y el espacio.

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El conocimiento del ser supremo que traiga consigo la liberación es fundamental y la manera en la que la realidad puede vislumbrarse, uno de los postulados básicos para el equilibrio físico. Tanto la adoración a los dioses como aquello que influye en la vida del sujeto es primordial para entender esto.

El investigador Vyacheslav Ruzov profundizó exhaustivamente en la cultura india, los postulados del hinduismo y la manera en la que ellos conciben su vida a través de su sabiduría. Los hombres sabios de la India le dieron grandes consejos, entre ellos, sugerencias de lo que debes mantener en secreto para poder ser próspero en la vida y mantener siempre el misterio sobre ésta.

1. Los planes a futuro

Evitar hablar de estos hasta que sean un hecho para que así ya no sea sencillo golpearlas y destruirlas. Lo que anhelamos tiene grandes debilidades, espera hasta vislumbrarlas cercanas o serás víctima de lo que los demás creen que no lograrás.

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2. El misterio de tu caridad

Dar algo a los demás no es para presumir sino para considerarlo un tesoro único. Si alabas tus buenas obras, pronto serás arrogante y querrás el reconocimiento ajeno, pero cuando no lo consigas, te sentirás decepcionado. No hay nada mejor que guardarlo para sentir que hiciste una buena acción y nada más.

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3. La austeridad

Ya sea la falta de dinero, de amor, de sueño, de descanso, cualquier cosa que consideres que te falta, porque a veces la austeridad también puede darte la armonía que necesitas.

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4. Heroísmo y valentía

Cada día todos nos enfrentamos a diferentes pruebas, tanto internas como externas. Muchas veces recibimos halagos por aquello que se ve, pero nadie recibe una palmada por todas aquellas barreras internas que se nos presentan. No hay sentido en alabar sólo lo exterior ni para el que lo recibe ni para el que lo hace, porque no sabemos cuántas personas han superado algo peor.

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5. El conocimiento espiritual

Es algo completamente tuyo que no necesitas compartir con nadie. En casos realmente necesarios puedes revelarlo, ya sea que alguien más lo requiera o tú mismo, pero no en alguna otra circunstancia.
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6. Conflictos de hogar y familiares

Tal vez este sea uno de los puntos más importantes. Mientras menos hables de los problemas de tu familia, más fuerte y estable puede ser. Esas discusiones funcionan para deshacerte de la energía negativa, pero si hablas de ellas con alguien más, creerás en ellas con más intensidad.

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7. Las cosas negativas que alguien más dijo

Es como llevar lodo a tu casa. Si lo escuchaste y es malo, es mejor dejarlo de lado y seguir con tu vida, llevar los problemas ajenos son una carga que no necesitas. Si en tu oficina o escuela también escuchas hablar mal de alguien, no lo comentes, puedes convertirte en la persona que esparció el rumor.

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A veces el silencio es el mejor aliado, el compañero de las batallas ganadas y de los consejos más sabios. Los libros de Jaime Sabines te permitirán sentir el silencio más insoportable.

 

Source: http://culturacolectiva.com/7-cosas-que-debes-mantener-en-secreto-segun-la-sabiduria-hindu/

Asking Yourself This Question Every Day Can Actually Make You Happier

If you ever feel powerless, frustrated, stuck or unproductive, this question can be a game-changer.

Do you ever feel powerless? Frustrated? Stuck? Are you living or working in fear? Maybe you hit a rut and are feeling unproductive? Resentful? Even hopeless?

While it’s normal to have all these feelings parked in the temporary loading and unloading zone while you remove your baggage, what is not normal is for these feelings to find a permanent space in long-term parking.

Feelings such as these gone unaddressed are a sure sign that you’re teetering on the brink of a toxic mind.

So how do you begin the process of making sure you never arrive there, and instead continue to keep a positive outlook on life?

A lesson from Truman Burbank

In the movie The Truman Show, Jim Carrey plays a guy who has no clue that his entire life — birth, marriage and career — has been rigged for one big television reality show broadcast daily for viewers to follow his every move.

While Truman thinks he is making free personal choices, every aspect of his life is manipulated by the production team that is calling the shots from the control booth.

Eventually, Truman figures out that his life has been a scam and tries to escape from the fabricated small town (the actual studio lot) he has never ventured beyond.

At one point, an assistant in the control booth asks the creator, “Do you think he will be able to find his way out?” The creator responds, “If he was absolutely determined to leave, he could at anytime. The truth is that he prefers his world.”

Choose the life you live

And so it is with many of us. We choose our lives, marriages and careers as the ones that others preferred for us, rather than the ones that we prefer ourselves.

Sometimes it seems easier to let other people — parents, spouses, bosses, and people of influence — decide for us. But if we make important life choices by default, we will never know who we are; we will never know what our unique God-given gifts are to give to the world.

While it may be safer and easier for some people to not rock the boat, the reality is we all need to take responsibility for choosing. Disowning our choices deceive us and make us believe over the long run that we are not active agents in our decisions.

We start to think other people are in control, thus relieving us of our duties to be responsible and whole.

Ask yourself this question

If you want to live from choice, the greatest gift you will ever give yourself is to always ask this question…

Am I speaking into the truth that most matters to me?

At some point, a person needs to break the cycle of swallowing his own voice to speaking into his truth faultlessly.

When you are asked what you want, and you hear from deep down inside your gut, “This is what I want,” forgo the pat answer you’ve been rehearsing for years.

Instead, pause, don’t speak for a moment, and tune into your honest response. What is your heart telling you? What is that voice inside telling you? What is your true desire?

Find that place deep within you that honors your choice and verbalize it. Now you’re getting your power back, and living from choice.

So what’s for lunch?

You can start this process by practicing with the little things and mundane decisions of everyday life. How can you expect to know and live from truth about your purpose and passion if you don’t even speak the truth about where you want to eat for lunch?

While the practice of asking for what you want may not get you what you want every time, you’re far better off by living true to yourself.

So take responsibility for your choices. You’re the only one who makes them! Get your power back; make the choices only you can be happy with.

Source: http://www.inc.com/marcel-schwantes/exceptionally-happy-people-ask-themselves-this-question-every-day.html?cid=sf01002&sr_share=facebook

 

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