What Your Love Language Says About You.

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Source:https://blog.onlywomen.com/ By:Kris Gage Don’t worry, “Gifts” people. We love you. Gary Chapman had a good thing going when he introduced us to “love languages” — the way each of us best understands and prefers to receive love from others, broken down into five (acts of service, gifts, physical touch, words of affirmation and quality time)— more than 20 years ago. […]

25 Ways to Avoid Living Your Life on Someone Else’s Terms.

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Source:https://theascent.pub/ By: Anthony Moore Photo: wee lee on Unsplash “An individual is free only to the extent of his own self-mastery. Those who will not govern themselves are condemned to find masters to govern over them.” -Steven Pressfield 1. Don’t Watch Commercials Commercials offer you virtually 0% value. They are psychologically designed to capture your attention and […]

The Benefits of 365 Consecutive Days of Meditation.

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Source:https://medium.com/ By:Jonathan Greene Photo by Ashley Batz on Unsplash From Someone Who Never Thought They Could Do It Yes, another meditation story on Medium. But let me clear a couple things up for you right away. I’m not going to tell you how to meditate. Or how to breathe. Or the correct posture for Zazen. The truth is that […]

When You Realize You’re Not Trying Hard Enough

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https://medium.com/ Jonathan Greene Photo by Sam Solomon on Unsplash Actually, You’re Not Trying At All I don’t really want to date right now. But as each day passes I become less and less resistant to the possibility. However, in order to be open to it, I really have to put forth a modicum of effort. Because right now, I’m […]

Nothing Lasts Forever

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Source:https://medium.com/ By:Kris Gage Including all the good and bad moments We often fight fluidity in life We forget about change. We unnecessarily set ourselves to the constant task of compartmentalizing each moment as though it stands alone, and we exhaust ourselves emotionally in this. All we have to do is understand that things exist even if we […]

Once You Understand These 5 Fundamentals, You’ll Be Able to Consistently Achieve HUGE Goals FINAL

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Source: https://medium.com/ By: Anthony Moore Photo by John Arano on Unsplash After 6+ years of behavioral counseling and addiction therapy, I’ve learned an important lesson: Most people don’t really understand how to change their life. This is why so many people quit difficult tasks after a few weeks. It’s why so many people don’t know how to be […]

The #1 Way To Make Your Relationship Work.

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Source:https://blog.onlywomen.com/ By: Kris Gage photo cred It’s not about asking — nor giving — more. If you ask people what the most important thing is in a relationship, you’ll get a myriad of answers… trust. communication. respect. etc. But all of the answers really tie back to one singular factor. And it’s: Develop our own emotional maturity. And taking […]

The Science of Developing Mental Toughness in Your Health, Work, and Life.

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Source:https://medium.com/ By: James Clear Photo by Specna Arms on Unsplash Talent is overrated, mental strength is critical. Have you ever wondered what makes someone a good athlete? Or a good leader? Or a good parent? Why do some people accomplish their goals while others fail? What makes the difference? Usually we answer these questions by talking about the talent […]

Focus on the Process For Long-Term Success.

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Source:https://theascent.pub/f By:Michelle Klieger Photo by Suzanne D. Williams on Unsplash Saving money and losing weight are very similar processes: success is slow and requires a lot of deliberate steps. There are get rich quick schemes and fad diets, but these don’t deliver long-term, sustainable results. Also, success in both areas is hard to see mostly because change happens […]

Stop Living In “Someday”

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Source: https://medium.com/@krisgage/ By: Kris Gage Photo: Artist Pantónio Sometimes when we see what other people are building — small businesses, startups, websites, housing developments, whiskey brands, etc. — we think to ourselves, “huh, I could maybe do that someday.” (And, sure. Whatever — maybe we could. But that’s not the point of this post.) The point is: in most cases, we haven’t. We’d rather sit […]